Love is like 2 people filling up a piece of paper ... 
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A relationship starts off as a clear piece of paper. 
A guy and a gal agrees to write on that piece of paper. When it starts, 
both r excited as it's their first time working together. They fill up the 
paper with the best of things they can think of. Sometimes the guy writes 
more , sometimes the gal writes more. Some people writes without thinking 
much, some writes after some thought.

As the writing carries on, it gets more and more tiring. The couple have to
be motivated to keep on writing. This is the commitment and responsibility 
of a relationship. As long as the urge to write continues, the writing will
never end. It will carry on paper after paper until one pen's ink run out. 
This is eternal love till death do us apart........

Some couples prefer to write together, some write their own and combine the
efforts. Neither side should be the only one writing, else ink may get 
blocked for the party who writes non-stop. Too tired......

Everyone has his/her handwriting. It is very difficult to change one's 
handwriting. Not impossible but it takes a lot of time and hard work. The 
outcome may not be desirable. It is also difficult to imitate the 
handwritings of another person. The most one can do is to be tidier or more
untidy in their handwritings. Sometimes, to make the writing on the paper 
look more presentable, it could be necessary for either side to slightly 
alter the style of his/her handwritings.....

A mistake in love is like a smudge on the paper......

Whether purposely or accidentally a smudge is a smudge. No matter how well 
the writing has gone so far or how lovely is the content, a smudge will 
leave a mark no matter how well u cover it (eraser, liquid paper, etc.). 
Whether to keep on writing will depend on the perception of the couple. 
Whether they mind the content more or the outlook of the piece of work 
more. Worst case is when the paper is torn. It'll leave a very ugly mark. 
Well, the decision lies with the couple....

To break-off is to stop writing.......

Many reasons can lead to this ending. One party could be the one writing 
non-stop and really too tired to carry on anymore. One party or both could 
be unsatisfied with the content or really dislike what each other is 
writing (it takes time to know the writing style of someone, it could be 
halfway through the paper before it is known). Or a smudge exists and 
either one or both mind(depend on their level of perfectionism). Or it 
could be what they r writing r contradicting each other. It can also be the
case where one party finds another partner to write with .......

Other analogies........

Pen users r serious lovers. Those who use pencils like to test things out 
first. Some even write drafts with other people(many-timers). After a 
breakup, a photocopy of the writings so far is made and this is given to a 
party while the other keeps the original(for memories). Or it could be 
either or neither will keep the writings. It could also be the original 
work lies there waiting for the original writers to be back. A well-done 
masterpiece could be bound into a book and kept forever. Likewise in some 
cases, it may be pieces of paper lying around. Different people writes 
different things and have different outcomes.

In the case of people going through many relationships, it's just like 
changing partners to work with. Some may write things according to past 
experiences or have new ideas. While writing, the couple may exchange their
pens. In a new relationship, one party might mind that his/her partner's 
pen has been used by other people before.

Personally I believe this also applies to friendship right ? Friends :) It 
also requires both parties to play their part to keep the friendship 
forever lasting :)


        "In three words I can sum up everything I've 
         learned about life: it goes on."        
                                                -Robert Frost