The Theory of Love (part 1)
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 You know, love is just like someone waiting for a bus.
 When the bus comes, you look at it and said to yourself,
 "eeee...so full ....cannot sit down one".
 So you said to yourself,"I'll wait for the next one".
 You let the bus go and waited for the second bus.

 Then when the second bus came, you looked at it and said,
 "eeee...this bus so old...surely very uncomfortable one." 
 So you let the bus go again, decided towait for the next bus.

 After awhile,another bus came it's not crowded and not old 
 but you said, "eeee... no air-con one...and the weather 
 is so warm, better wait for the next one " so again you 
 let the bus go and decided to wait for the next bus.

 Then the sky started to get dark as it is getting late. 
 You panicked and jump on to the next bus that came. 
 It is not until much later that you  found out that 
 you had boarded on to the wrong bus!

 So you wasted your time and money waiting for what you want!
 Even if an aircon bus came, can you ensure that the aircon bus 
 won't break down or whether the aircon will be too cold for you?
 So people...(mostly gals!)wanting to get what you want is 
 not wrong. But it wouldnt hurt to give other people a chance 
 right? If you found that the "bus" doesn't suit you just press
 the red button and get off the bus!

 But wait........ I'm sure you have this experienced before. 
 You saw a bus coming (the bus you want of course) 
 you flagged it but the driver act blur  by pretending 
 not to see you and zoomed pass you!

 Well, and when the bus zoomed past, what you may prefer 
 I will have to WALK!

 The bottom line is love is like waiting for a bus whether 
 you want to get on the bus and give the bus a chance 
 depends totally on you. And walking is like being out of love!





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 Theory of Love (part 2)
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 Almost everyone is looking for the perfect bus. 
 When you board a bus, how would you ever know if 
 it's not the wrong bus? By the time you realise
 that it's the wrong bus and press the red button 
 to alight, you would have already wasted your time 
 and money! After that, you would have to walk back too!

 Isn't that worse? Why should we squeeze up a crowded bus 
 when there isn't sufficient room for us? Why should we
 board an old and rickety bus that makes us feel 
 uncomfortable? It might give us motion sickness! Why should 
 we board a non-aircon bus and feel hot and flustered
 throughout the journey? Why torture ourselves when we
 find them uncomfortable? Why compromise? They were the
 wrong buses right from the start!
 
 Our conclusion is why take a bus when you can drive?
 You'll be in the comfort of your own car! Pick up a
 passenger or kick him out of our car whenever we feel
 like it. We're the drivers of our own destiny!

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 You Never Lose By Loving
 You Always Lose By Holding Back
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 Here's my own version (and experience too)

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 You are waiting for a bus , the skies overcast and
 no shelter around ,then the first bus passes along , 
 the driver offers to stop and let you broad.But you reject
 the kindness saying " well there is no air-con on it ... "

 It's starting to pour and you are totally drenched ,
 then you see this bus coming , it's got air-con and 
 it looks very new.You flagged for it , in the hope that the
 driver will stop for you.  But no ... the driver thinks
 that you are too drenched to board the bus and
 it passes you without stopping , leaving you in the rain.

 The rain is beginning to subside but you are disappointed ,
 no wait ... another bus approaches you from the distance ,
 this time the driver sees you and starts to slow down.
 It's got air-con but the paint on its body are peeling off ,
 instead you wave it on , refusing to take the bus
 , coz it looks too 'old fashion'.

 By now , you are very fustrated with yourself not being
 able to get the ideal bus and not being to accept all
 the other buses.In the end , you finally decide to ... walk.

 As you walk along the road , a lot of other buses pass
 by you but you tell yourself " for the moment i guess
 i will just be contented with walking.. " and hoping that
 your ideal bus comes along to finally fetch you ...

 (So sometimes though taking a bus may seem like
 what everyone is doing , but it may not be the bus
 that will take them to their destinations , instead
 why not startwalking, instead of just staying at that
 stagnant point , and you can also make up your mind
 as to which bus to take finally ... )